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Steelmanning My Daughter's Bully

My daughter Tess is ten. Since September a classmate named Madison Kreider has made her cry on about four school days out of five. My wife's response has been to call Madison "a little monster," email the teacher twice, and tell Tess that none of it is true. I understand the impulse. But "none of it is true" is a confident claim about seven separate propositions, and nobody in my house had evaluated any of them.

principle_of_charityOriginal64 points

She's back at the lunch table. She cut her bangs herself over the weekend, so row one no longer applies.

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how_is_tessOriginal41 points

How is Tess doing now?

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sigma_grindset_99Original-12 points

madison cooked

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My Tenants Would Want Me to Raise Their Rent if They Were Smarter

My tenants oppose the rent increase under their current beliefs and cognitive limitations. An adequately informed version of each tenant would have a considerably richer view of the situation.

extrapolated_landlordOriginal22 points

The form says "acknowledges receipt." I had the language reviewed.

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tenant_side_attyOriginal73 points

Tenant attorney. Please don't attach your "assessment of their likely future views" to the renewal form. Anything stapled to a lease can end up being read as a term. If extrapolated Malcolm agrees to the increase in writing, a judge is going to want to know who signed it.

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extrapolated_landlordOriginal16 points

I'm privileging the order she herself described as aspirational. She chose it. I only declined to read it literally.

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The Time Value of Money and Why My Grandmother Is Being Selfish With My Inheritance

My grandmother keeps outperforming every mortality assumption I enter. Each additional year delays distribution, draws from principal, and forces me to reopen the spreadsheet.

duration_risk_grandsonOriginal73 points

She went, in business class. She sent the family a photo from Kyoto with Marlene. I've moved the distribution date out again.

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one_year_onOriginal46 points

A year on, did she go to Japan?

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sailboat_grandpaOriginal96 points

I went through a version of this with my grandfather and I want to share how it went, because I think the post is right about the economics and wrong about the negotiation. In 2021 I proposed an accelerated gifting program to him, very close to yours. I'd done the spreadsheet. I'd modeled his expenses to age 100 with a margin, shown that he could transfer $150,000 to me without any meaningful change in how he lived, and walked him through the annual exclusion and the lifetime exemption. He list…

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Pascal’s Mugging and Why I Gave an Escort My Son’s College Fund

My wife calls it spending our child’s college fund on a prostitute. This omits the nonzero probability that refusing would cause 10³⁸ future beings to suffer.

cosmic_endowmentOriginal41 points

UMass Amherst, in-state. He's majoring in economics, which I am choosing to read as engagement.

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kat_reads_lateOriginal29 points

Did Evan end up somewhere?

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gigachad_utilitarianOriginal-9 points

mercedes if youre reading this hmu

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End-of-Life Announcement: Support for My Father Ends March 31

After a great deal of thought, we are announcing the end of support for Dad, effective March 31. Throughout this post, "we" means me.

legacy_supportOriginal47 points

He did, using the PDF. Karen says he printed it twice.

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printer_followupOriginal29 points

Did he ever get the printer working?

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brrrt_capitalOriginal-9 points

this is just abandoning your dad with extra steps

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